I hear my mom coughing, investigate. No she didn't swallow the wrong way. She's got two projects, and one is going fine, the other not so much. I ask if these are intellectual projects -- "No" -- physical projects? "Yes." Can you explain? "Well, I have to take..." she points, her index finger peeking out from under the covers, then stops, at a loss for words, and starts laughing. She's not out of the #hallucination, just amused at not being able to explain.
#dementia #OldOld #caregiving
@dbaplanb Visited dad in hospital just after Christmas last year. He was never a carpenter. But the large cupboard in his room irritated him. It seemed to be imperfect for him. He tried to explain that the furniture must be moved or corrected in some way. After noticing that he couldn’t explain he started to smile clumsily. And said only „Mein Junge“ (my boy). - - - We have us. #dementia #91richyearsoflive #sonlovesdad
@knopi 
We can just love them.