@im
'Pro tip: being bad at saying “no” to requests does not make it everyone else’s responsibility to never make a request that you might want to say ”no” to'

otoh, possibly untrue 'Amateur tip: avoiding any semblance of being "good" to as few requests at all might just not make it everyone else's responsibity to hold back as many requests as they can that you probably won't say "no" to too', ami+!Wrong?😜
(parse that heh)