@email@example.com The protocol itself is a monument to nerddom so far as I’ve read. But nothing seems to work across the clients and servers, not how they proclaim. I wrestle with it far too much. Thanks for the pointers. Nextcloud talk might be a good go for some use cases. Maybe matrix. Looking around for a reliable and mobile friendly setup.
"I appreciate SDF but it's a general-purpose server and the name doesn't make it obvious that it's about art." - Eugen Rochko