@Skywise When I was in high school, I was having issues with my mom, she already had been a tyrant my whole life, but at that time she started her "life change" and was more miserable than ever. I went and stayed with a friend for a week to get away from her. I had been talking to my best friend about the situation, and told him some very private serious stuff that I didn't want him to share with anyone. He did, but I didn't find out it was him until many years later. He's dead to me.